Not him. Image Credit Flickr: anniferrr,vivekjena,scottchene, I think its very confusion to s women it gives her mix feelings where she belongs. Is it true that if you love someone let them go and if they come back it was meant to be ? We grew close, but now that Ive transferred to another location he has dropped me. dated this guy for 2 years. Of course if I did Id reject him as quickly as possible but Im just curious right now. Last time he was single, he was more than likely younger and on top of his game. Just remember that you broke up for a reason, so you need a plan to fix the issues in your relationship and make things work this time around. Harsh but its plausible . i have been married for 4 years now and my husband and i love each other very dearly . On my third trimester, he said to my face he was not ready to be a father and was not going to do it with me anymore and that he doesnt think he is gonna be a good father. I had a boyfriend, everything was going strong, there was so much love till suddenly it hit his mind that he is looking for someone little different What was that? I didnt agree with him, so the relationship ended in an argument. I hope this helps. I am sending it in the post as I dont want to crowd him and want him to make up his own mind on what he thinks to my letter. Is he just not interested at all in talking to me anymore? It is likely that he does not want to be involved with someone with a child. I just pray every day that this space will make us stronger and whatever thoughts he has going through his mind disappear. Jessica, Does that mean he didnt love me ever? Hed do that a couple times in a row. I poured on him my sorrows,I told him how i lost my job ,my wife and how i was about to lose my girls and he listened and comforted me via telephone. When a man leaves a woman hell sometimes regret his decision. And also, he didnt give an exact reason for the breakup. I would say what is helping me is family not friends mine dont quite understand we are at different stages in life i guess but family and laughs and reading or getting into a good movie a comedy makes me feel okay when im home and trying to put everything in the back of my mind. My friend basically told me that me sleeping with my coworker so much basically changed his focus from maybe trying to be with me to just sleeping with me. Hell reflect on how you were before, which makes him want to pursue a future with you in it again. I digress. It was the best week of my life and he said it was the best week of his life. If he will not speak to you, just keep it moving. He told me that he loved me more than his family and wanted to have a family with me and be a great dad. Gosh, I wish my ex would come back to me but I think I have little hope of that happening What happens if you do something wrong like look at their phone messages I guess then you have to just move forward and realise that its over. But we had an amazing relationship. And when I always had doubts he always said we are not young and that he Im his everythibg and we will get married. When youre able to do that, then hell start getting excited about the chances of you two getting back together. He visited me often we traveled together, when his mom died, he changed and sent me an email out of the blue that we have no future, I know his in pain of his lost, My ex has said that he knows exactly what he wants now and has had those months to think about everything, and he loves me and wants to be with me. And he wasnt Happy. Ive been reading a lot of advice online that says not to contact the guy if he breaks it off. When your ex is sober, he can convince himself that hes moved on and doesnt want to be with you anymore. Now I am thinking he probably wanted alone time and when I texted him I was intruding in that space? For the first time i was in love. We have two children 27 and 25 yrs old and a grandson who is 7. He may have figured its better for him to just focus on himself and look for happiness elsewhere. He is very polite, respectful, sincere, and I can tell he cares about others and their feelings. You can drive into a bright future by constantly looking in the rear view mirror. Im beyond heartbroken. so now few days later I check my facebook messages and I seen he got mad and sad if I come over his house hell have me arrested and how I wrote sumbody asking bout him but I felt like it was no harm. The harsh reality is he doesnt want a relationship with you. I didnt owe her an explanation, because I wasnt the person who cheated on her with someone else from the outside. A breakup, no matter how cheap it is make you feel bad about yourself Convincing yourself that he will come back will allow you to sit back and say no for a while. I wish you luck. However it is also very important to note that I have a Special needs son, who this man really did try to parent and love, eventhough he never really accepted my sons disabilities, or the myriad of challenges that go along with them. I think you are misunderstanding me as a person and my intentions. One thing led to another and we ended up having sex Know matter what Happens. "I recognized . This was almost a year ago. I just never been so happy and comfortable with someone before. After all he himself gave me the reason to test him. That was just beginning of the end. After some initial exploring on his own, he will soon discover that your unique qualities and strengths that he was originally attracted to cant be replicated that easily. And you already know where that leads to. My ex and I had been together for 2 years. So throughout him being in boot camp he wrote really cute genuine things. In short, he drinks excessively and doesnt have money of his own for a future. Right around 3pm we began chatting about his wonderful meatloaf[I had taken a piece home with me and had enjoyed it after my gym session] to which he replied: Regardless of when my bf was drunk or sober he constantly told me that. He said to never call or talk to him again. Thats because for many people, arguments tend to get progressively worse. I did not initiate a break up but i ranted all my feelings and disappointment in him. i wont hurt him and he knows that too.. plz help me anyone..? Is he seeing someone else? A few years back I dated a guy for about 8 months. And I found out 2 days later he was talking to someone and found out on Facebook that he is now engaged to his ex girlfriend. He said he was fine. I was angry he said that. Its been two months since the break up, and hes still asking to go back out. Just stay strong and Smile! See ya! This is the only issue I can think of when it comes to texting. I told him if he felt that way he shouldnt be dating me because marriage is what I want for my future with the right person. To me it really was out of the blue, not hints were being dropped. IF that was the case, is it still a good idea to message him? I kept hoping he would change his mind but he never did. He did return. Enter your account data and we will send you a link to reset your password. Be glad you have discovered he is uncaring and immature and move on to better things. I guess for now ill settle for book-marking and adding Yes, do not contact him and follow the no contact rules. This is why it bothers me. I want to believe that he just has so much going on and the relationship was too much for him at the moment. :) The first time we broke up with my current ex from 3 months ago was because I was texting my guy friends and it wasnt even like that because I have a lot of friends. He moved to the bay, got a new job and said he wants to start fresh. One day he stopped answering my messages. Sometimes finding the right words to send someone off can be tricky. Aquarius men do love their independence, even if they seem attached to you. Those were some good times.. If youre looking for a step-by-step instruction manual that will show you exactly how to get back your ex, I recommend you check out the Ex Factor Guide by Brad Browning. So my biggest flaw is that I wont brush much a mans ego if he is in the wrong. I not only told him how much i cared for and love him, I showed it. I would confront your boyfriend and ask him why he does not believe you. I want only the one person. Maybe someone can help me figure this out. He might just continue dating other people and eventually settle down with someone he gets along with. And yes, I feel the same way as you Rebecca. A couple days prior to the breakup we went to dinner and everything was fine. I started going out with a couple other guys to try to get over him and one of them tried to take advantage of me and that made me miss my ex even more. Hi, My boyfriend and I met in med school 5 years ago. Because I have no idea what I did to give him that impression. I also feel like a fool. After that, everyday, he was happy to see me. I know everyone that reads this would think Im so much better off and shouldnt even be moping around for him. We were very cominted in our relationship. I step back and was like no Im not talking to her like that I swear and they have barely text and havent hung out since. It guarantees purging yourself of him and only if hes the right one will he return. 15 months on & off, mostly on. But needs to do it for him and he become unhappy with all of the pressure and stress. Easy going guy but a sycopath. Really would love a guys opinion on this. but how can I take him back if theres a chance that he left me for that girl. And I went over there last Monday night to get it. After that he went completely cold turkey. Hed live at his house and Id just spent the night when the boys werent there for the next 10 years? Why would he just change his mind suddenly? My husband left again for the last time on december 7, 2015. In this time he loved me like anythng, he wanted to spend a lot of time with me, he did everythng wat he could, but after a week something happened by my mistake.. If your ex is making an effort to stay in touch and he still wants to see you, its a good sign he hasnt completely given up on your relationship. Guys would rather go back to their comfort zone (you) before starting all over again. If he is not interested if will never work.. Find someone with whom you can share you life, and they can share theirs. My advice to any one who might be thinking of contacting a spell caster,is to contact Metodo i know he the only real spell caster i think still leaves his methods will speak and make you believe. And it all has to do with how you prepped yourself for this phase. .. Me and my ex were together for about a year and a half but had known each other for about two years. Perhaps he just happens to be at the same parties as you, or he always seems to show up at the places you like to hang out. Do you really wanna be with someone that you literally know hes not into you anymore and the feelings are just fake? Also no one deserves to be dumped out of the blue. After our 2nd date I noticed a change in his texting. I even created a budget for him to follow but he never followed it (and he is the one that asked me for help with managing his money). Find someone more solid and stable. Hell invite you over for dinner, take time away from his favorite band or movie to spend time with you, and show true signs of what hes actually feeling. May I suggest san diego . Thats why I recommend speaking to one of the gifted advisors over at Psychic Source. I will not front here, I am quite perplexed. We would like to show you a description here but the site won't allow us. Im in that same situation now and it sucks! He has apologized and acknowledged his wrong doings to me. A few months ago, I reached out to Relationship Hero when I was going through a tough patch in my relationship. He asked me if we could just date, and he would give me time to decide. Hes the one who made feelings go away, so hes the one who must make them return. I can tell he did like me because of his body language, plus he had complimented me a couple times. My old coworker that is. After all, youre not together anymore, and theres no reason for him to keep reaching out unless he still cares. He is now trying to make me jealous and act like everything is fine when I am dying. should I keep trying to make him understand how much his kids need him here. My family thinks I need to move on Bc if he dumped me he didnt love me enough to talk it out and get through it. I would keep back just a little to see if he has truly changed. But if he doesnt find it, chances are that hell want to reconnect with you and come back to invest in you. He tells you he wants to see you, and then disappears for days. So with this great work done for me by Prophet Osa of whom i promise to always share his good work to the whole wide world and if any body is out there passing through any relationship difficulties should kindly contact him. I have given up hope of ever finding out why. My ex-boyfriend tried to come back into my life after I found out that I was the other woman.. I felt like this would make him feel more comfortable if I gave him some time alone, but also reach out once in a while without making him feel pressured or bombarding him. All of which upset him even more and he said he wants me to respect his decision and that he doesnt want to speak to me. I love him and I wish all of this didnt even happen. The first man i have ever loved was walking out of my life just like a mist that comes and go i wanted him back to show him that he changed me to show him with him am a different person,He kept saying he would not want the same thing to happen to him just like my exes i believed he still loved he though he never said but that thought made me contact Metodo the spell caster for help. Dont waste any more of your time on a man who does not reciprocate. Ok so me and my boyfriend were together for 4 years and living together for 3 years. He is taking advantage of you. NC does not guarantee getting him back. I thought he would understand why I flipped out though. But if he dumps you by email and never speaks to you again, he does not sound like he is LTR material. I understand a lot of people mentioned about the Grass is Greener Syndrome, since it had been a 3 years relationship, that or maybe he is going through a quarter-life crisis as a man, trying to figure out life and career and so forth. Because of this, theyll feel naturally skeptical if they know they have to deal with someone whos trying to put them in a box. Anyways he is living with her and ignores me now . Anyway girls, if you are being dumped you better forget the guy, its his loss and make sure to find a nice guy and let time tell your ex he was wrong. Let them know how you feel and ask them to put in a good word for you. And will the misery that he had with her eventually happen again. so i asked him what is our way forward and if he wanted to be with me and why he chose to tell me now. I had so much fun. And I dont even know if he will even respond to my message. I wonder why that happened? I guess you want a real one, right? My boyfriend just broke up with me. We even went to Florida on vacation together. I told him I was confused and needed time to think. If they are single or in bad relationships he will soon stop listening to what they have to say He will start to value what the people he loves says, and the influence of his parents and family will start to make him change his mind. Say goodbye. Everything was going great, we talked about the future and I could tell he felt very strongly for me. And whats happening now is that youre suffering from hormone withdrawal. A guy perferably . Does he have a job? Sometime he comes to my room, but he makes a barrier not to be to close with me. After all, you're not together anymore, and there's no reason for him to keep reaching out unless he still cares. My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago because he was upset for some things I said and hurt him. Not one who will dump you by email from far away. Then we both ended up at the same place, he cussed me out (drunk), I called the police & they said to write the judge so I did. If his friend knew that you would like to go with them would she allow you to go? Then one day without saying anything he left. If I am able to get him back, I would want him and I to start anew. Sometimes i ask myself, what really make those who claim to love you stay ? Wil he ever get back to me? I honestly cant think of any woman sticking around with him for a long-term relationship. Be strong and dont look back. Any insight would be helpful. You say guy number 2 makes you fell wanted. No matter how unique your breakup was, Im positive Brad will have helpful advice for your situation and answer all your questions in detail. What got to me was the sparkle in his eye. Be real with the guy if you expect him to be real with you. Not one who listens to every stupid thing other people say. Are you both very young? Do you really what a guy like that. Ive been in a relationship with. And I really ask you for help, because I know I broke the most important for me relationship. You many find this helpful to see if he is cheating on you. He did and every time he left it was without warning. I definitely think youre overthinking the whole situation. Later in the conversation, I started asking him questions. I was, but Im sorry, I went to school for 8 years to get my Dual degree, and I wanted to have a career in my profession. Ive initiated to part this relationship around 7/8 months into the relationship back then. JMO But no response or questionable responses are all answering your question, and IMO NEXT! When you go from one relationship, being hurt, then into another relationship and rushing into things that fast, mixed emotions can set in. I was so happy with him, but he was not there for me in the end. Here is his contact if you need his help. Lastly I sent him sushi and he wrote me that I am crazy, that he really enjoy, that it was the wonderful suprise. Even if I feel to be with You, I will not say you, or if I do, anyway I will not come back. Then this past Friday, the server went down. One day he is in one mood, next day something else. The time after a break up can be very tough for you, however, it can also be tough on your ex-boyfriend. we are both 20. So why does he still want to see you? Will he ever come back? Please help. I love both of them but I think I rushed into the second one too fast. I tried email, but that too was down. Apologies for the long post Im just so very confused!! I write about the intersection of life and love: how spirituality has changed my relationships, what I do to cultivate love in my life, and why I believe that all relationships are spiritual. Leaving without even saying a "goodbye" is mean. But the next day he changed his mind. Bring up the good old days and how exciting it is that he wants you back again now. But then again my past life that was to be left in the closet got out. The first one was nothing by any means, he did something that left me a little butt-hurt and i told him quite simply it was a crappy thing to do, not raising my voice, but sounding a little miffed.Well, he ran from me..literally locked himself in the bathroom and was afraid to come out[granted, a bit too much wine was involved this evening, so i chalked it up to that really..] when I was finally able to convince him to come out, it was obvious he was terrified. Ive gotten angry at him before, but Id never belittle him in any way. We live far apart. If your ex says he wants to stay friends with you, it could be a sign that he hasnt completely closed the door to your relationship. Despite partying it up and meeting new women, when the music calms, youll always be there in the back of his mind. Maybe he wanted to start a family with you, but then his ex appeared in the picture and that changed all his plans. I went down that night in a blizzard to collect my things while he was at work and ended up getting stuck in his driveway. I told him neither at the moment, because I am trying to work on bettering myself before I get into another relationship, but at the same time I am definitely not into hookups or just having sex with someone. At the end of the phone call I suggested we have a break & try once more, then if it didnt work we part ways but he said its over for good. It seems he likes you very much but he is not ready to make it exclusive and permanent. The next day I texted him and didnt reply and then I texted him again asking if he was okay. We met on a dating website because we were both ready for a serious relationship. Are these signs that he still misses our relationship or he just didnt bother to do anything about it? I broke up with my bf a week ago he is 37 I am 32. One day I decided to ask him if they text and he said yes. Then another 2 weeks went by & I messaged him again. He is likely reflecting on what he wants for his future. Im done normally means that they dont wish to stay close to you anymore and that you must give them lots of time. I am so confused. Communicate. Youll need to readjust your mental state so that you can remind him of the good parts of the past, and then hell have a better idea of what hes missing in life. Plus, I am exhausted, and though I try to keep my sense of huma, I am profoundly sad. We later agreed to talk, I told her I had no plans to return with her, then she told me she was surprised about that day, that after breaking up I went to talk to this other girl, that how could I forget about us so easily? Then he just came home one night and broke up with me, he said it is because he loves me but he is not inlove with me and does not see me in his future. I would also like some advice. I am trying to get help, and I have no intention of not resuming my former reputation of Ms Never Say Die, but it is going to take a lot. Otherwise it will be the roller coaster you describe, which is not very pleasant. Instead, wait for him to make a clear statement letting you know how he feels. I really do not have any better advice than that. When a man isnt getting his fix he becomes sexually frustrated. You will be an option only and will not be worth any effort. Sounds like he is not ready for a serious commitment with you. Try to recover from this and pick a new man who is nearby and accessible. Dont hold your breath waiting for a man that cuts you out of his life just like that. I do not suggest protracted LDR. I just dont understand what this means. I met his friends within a week of our first date, Ive since become friends with them as well, I know he loves me and my kids. I told him I was afraid of falling in love with him because I do want to get married and have a child and its not something he seems certain about for his future. I asked him to repeat what he just said. I told him before he left that if he changes his mind then to give me a call, but he said he wasnt going to change his mind. I had a bf for almost 4 years. I want you to come live with me and just things you dont say just to say them. He had been separated for 3 yrs and was not in the marital home. Maybe he just couldnt do it. They get cocky, arrogant and mess up. He doesnt seem to want to cut me out of his life completely nor I him. Are you both very young? At that time within the seven days, Stephen started coming around all the time i mean i dont think it was coincidental cos really it wasnt. Aquarius men have a bad habit of not saying what they mean, and now that hes busy getting your attention again, hell likely become even quieter than before. He is no longer that loving boyfriend, but an uncaring ex. Because that means that your ex will want to be around you more, which opens up the chance for him to come back to you. If you are focused in and he is not, that is what you need to clear up. Perhaps he is discovering that now. Its natural for guys to want some space, itll give him time to have a think about your relationship the ability to step back for a day or two and review it from a different angle. We knew it was stupid so we would always blow it over because our love for one another was stronger than the little incidents. So when he shares a memory that has a positive emotional tie to it, hes really letting you know that he missed you and wanted to reconnect. Does he drink a lot? Had not only not done that, but had told anyone who would listen that he still wanted me back. I told the guy I love him & adore him, etc but this whole friend thing isnt working out for me. But this time I honestly do not believe that I did anything wrong For some reason he wont let me go. True dat. If your ex still brings up these inside jokes, it might be his subtle way of reminding you of your history together and the special bond you shared. I contacted him to tell him the phone was on. 3. Was not really sure what to believe i just thought i was desperate i need help right away or i was going to lose my dream man for life. My problem with that was that I was invited by a mutual friend of ours 2 weeks before the party but I said Id prefer if my boyfriend told me himself as I dont know the guy throwing the party. 2 days of "and the lord heard me - i have my answers" || nsppd || 6th july 2023 I cant hurt someone or at least consciously use them Thank you for this forum. He then felt that he had to focus on his daughter and her wellbeing, and that he didnt have room for anything else in is life. The thing is we continue going out without any commitment and it felt good somehow. So it is hopeless unless he makes the effort to see me. He said he wants to be my friend and see me but I feel that I just cant be his friend, I just love him too much and it would kill me to just be friends. We met up about two weeks after and he told me he needs space to find out who he is. He also said if we get back together, we are getting married and that he still loves me and always will. Im not perfect, I can be a bitch sometimes, but hes always been there for me. Other than that I really changed my behavior and took new steps I never took before to avoid pushing him away. You want to inspire them! My boyfriend of two months broke up with me 3 weeks ago. Now he says he cannot be in a relationship, said I would expect him to marry me. This happened last week. I just got out of a 2 month relationship 3 months ago in September. 2 years in we were engaged, and 4 years in he seemed to change his mind. I applied the no contact rule again & lasted until the 24th of November & he messaged me to see how I was going, I responded thinking he wanted to work things out. Set an intention to be the best woman that you can be a be and work towards self development as it shows the man what he is missing. Perhaps he was looking for something else and was inconsiderate / scared to discuss his needs with you. Dont make his life more difficult than it has to be by waiting around for a response from him. I dont believe in the love spell doctors, but I believe in God. Has it moved on. Does he seriously love me??? I went there, had the best week of my life and came back committed to leave him and what could never be behind me. How can men lose their feelings so quickly? A friend of his (who is not a nice person) told him some bad and false things about me after my ex left the country. This is especially true if you broke up recently and hes already started making contact with you again. Hi Stephanie. If roles were switched, would you take him to the beach? Remain positive, show him what he is missing but subtly, dont try hard or flaunt it. I was asking as a friend and he asked me to leave him alone and to accept his decision and leave him be. We dont see each other, I have no idea what hes doing with himself (if hes rebounded, or wanting to) and I cant eke tabs as he blocked me on Facebook (probably shouldnt be obsessing anyway, right?) Is he involved with another woman? I am sure you are not a teenager in high school. We get on so well and have never broken up before talked about being together forever and the future. Hi Friend :)! If he has already made progress in his life, he might just be saving up for something good for himself. Its obvious that you want your ex back because you want to heal (stop the pain), but youre going about it the wrong way. Im wondering if I should cancel that soon or change my info because he does still use it. I was together with my boyfriend for 7 years and we were the best together, we were even planing on living together, marrying and having children some day. I know I am a good woman and I take very good care of the men I have been with doing all three things and then some. Any advice or input? Am that kind of person that have always thought that marrying a rich man will set me free in financially as a matter of fact i have been married to to four different men all for money i guess after every divorce with every one of them i didnt as much as i expected even when there was no prenuptial agreement signed. But I always felt something was wrong. He cried saying it was the hardest decision he has had to make as he really liked me but also loved his kids a he felt like the baby didnt know him. Red flag!! I dont call or send texts, he does all that and I ignore him but he keeps trying. This tip about putting your guard down is closely linked with this one: Dont be a different person trying to win him back. For my happiness he left me . After that he didnt leave my house for another week before he left he had decided to try it again while trying to make things better he just said it wasnt working, he didnt want to try and left. With that being said, more than likely hes just not getting any.
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